How does one succeed in life?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why do wives cheat with black guys?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

My boyfriend always verbally abuse me and makes me cry. If I try to tell him how hurt I was, he says to me he loves me and can't hurt me but always abuse me. Why?

Ask yourself:

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Procrastinates a lot.

Is the Philippines PH a poor 3rd world or 4th world country forever and forever?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How is bestiality wrong, but killing animals for sport or trophies is considered okay?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

How would you define love?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

What I need from you?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

That's it for today.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Can women learn to squirt?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.